Is it ever right to get involved in a flame war? I would always normally say no but people are flaming my little brother and my over-all desire is to kick their hiding-behind-teh-internets arses.
My brother, Peter is 17 and into musical theater (yes, I can hear the groans now), his favourite show is Avenue Q and he's seen it several times, once on opening night, and been to two out of show meet and greets with the cast. The cast, because of this, now know him and treat him with varying degrees of good humor.
Peter also runs a video blog on youtube where he documents his life and often these blogs include his trips to Avenue Q (I say often but out of 20-odd blogs only three have anything to do with it, and one is a copy of the BBC filming us singing the Internet is for Porn). As such he's known to quite a few people on the forums and they've done meet ups to go see the show.
All quite cute, yes?
Peter's favourite cast member is Simon Lipkin who, while being gorgeous, is also good natured and very sweet to fans. In Peter last video blog Simon Lipkin stole his camera, ran away with it and jokingly while doing this called Peter a stalker. All very cute, yes? Nice guy does silly thing for fans.
However, a group of people who run an Avenue Q forum have been spamming my brother's youtube of this video telling Peter Simon Lipkin hates him, he is a real stalker and he gives fans a bad name. These people, all three of them, run an Avenue Q fan forum and suddenly, they've decided to be the fan police.
Now, having been in LOTR, HP and Supernatural fandom I've got to say - I've seen batshit crazy and stalker fans - and my brother is not. I've also seen the videos, in which Peter is generally over-excited and Simon Lipkin eggs him on and pals around with him. I've met Simon Lipkin with Peter three times now and he has always been welcoming and kind - coming over to talk to us or pointing my brother out when we haven't engaged him.
I seriously dislike fans who try to police fandom - I'm not talking about etiquette but simply labeling the parts of fandom they dislike as 'bad influences' and trying to blacklist them.
Peter isn't doing anything wrong by videoing these meet ups. The kids are usually very well-behaved, queuing for autographs and chatting about the show with Peter just filming the replies from the cast. None of the cast have complained and they seem to really enjoy the attention for a younger audience.
So, basically, my big-sister-half want is to beat these people up but I'm rather unsure how to without being "Big-Sister, rawr!"
And for those who would like to see what all the fuss is about: My brother’s video Blog!
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=lXM5tSY0tMEAll the wank is in the comments, Peter shuts it down pretty quickly but still – RAWR! The impeach the fandom-honor of my family!